Study Skills and Organizational Skills Go Hand In Hand
Study skills are crucial for your child to be successful in his or her academic career, but
they alone are not enough to make your child a straight A student. To get the total
package, your child needs both study skills and organizational skills. You can help your
child learn and master simple organization skills at home, from an early age.
One of the best ways to become a great organizer is to develop and follow a great routine.
Once you have home routines down, your child should do the same with school routines.
For example, if your child knows that he always has to come home from school, grab a
snack, and then do homework and study until everything is completed, and that he is not
allowed to do anything else until this is done, he will accept this routine, and after a
while, do it without even thinking about it. Routines make even busy adult lives easier to
handle.
For your child to be well-organized and prepared both at home and school, you will have
to supply them with the essential items they need, pencils, paper, highlighters, etc. Make
certain that you are familiar with your childs class schedule, and the supplies needed, so
that you can help with whatever your child may need. Even if your child is a teenager,
they still look to you as a role model, so if you practice organizational skills in your own
life, they are much more likely to do the same.
As your child grows older and more mature, you should talk about the importance of
setting goals, and help them set some goals that they can achieve, so that they can
become more familiar with the process. You should also make certain that your child
knows what your expectations are, as far as grades, homework, studying, and around the
house chores. Dont just tell your child to do something one way, give them several
options to choose from, or if there are no options available, explain to them the reasons
why the task should be done in this manner. Your child will be much more open and
willing to try something if you explain it to them, rather than just demand that they do it
your way.
It is also important that you let your child know up front what will happen if they dont
do as expected. If they bring home a report card that states homework isnt being done, or
if grades start falling, let them know what privileges they will lose, and for what duration.
You dont want to put too much pressure on them or be unwilling to compromise, but
they do need to know that you will follow through with the consequences, if they dont
do what is required of them. Your child again, may not like you, but if he or she has to go
a semester with no cell phone, or no parties, they will think twice the next time they
decide to skip their homework. For some children, actions are the only way to get their
attention so that they listen to you.
Teach your child that organization can help make their life better, and that they will be
able to do more things that they enjoy, if they plan a good routine and stick to it. You
have to stick with it as well, and dont give in just because your child begs to stay home
from school today, or doesnt want to do that science assignment. It works both ways!
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Comment by George C. Leef, Director of Research
